Replay Send Salam


بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
روي في صحيح مسلم، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : لاَ تَدْخُلُوْا الْجَنَّةَ حَتَّى تُؤْمِنُوْا، وَلاَ تُؤْمِنُوْا حَتَّى تَحَابُّوْا، أَوَلاَ أَدُلُّكُمْ عَلَى شَيْءٍ إِذَا فَعَلْتُمُوْهُ تَحَابَبْتُمْ ؟ أَفْشُوا السَّلاَمَ بَيْنَكُمْ.
Narrated in Shohih Muslim from Abu Hurayrah RA, The Prophet said:

"You can not go to heaven so that you have faith, and you do not believe so that you love each other. Shall I show you something if you do things that will undoubtedly love each other? Spread greetings of you".


" ASSALAMU'ALAIKUM "
Salam words like this is a thing we often hear in life as a Muslim. Well, salam  is one form of "symbols" in Islam and is a very recommended sunnah (muakkad). And the primacy of the bay is very much as The Prophet mentioned in the hadiths.

Actually, there are several laws of this Salam from the sunnah, fardu, haram, makruh and permissible, who have all been because of differences in perpetrators, circumstances, places and other causes. For example Salam to the kafir, among men and woman who is not mahram, was in the bathroom, were praying, etc..
1. Sunnah, this is the legal origin of the launch Salam, and applies in general to meeting fellow Muslims, either between two people or a congregation.
2. Fardu, this is the origin of law in answering the Salam between two people or a congregation.
3. Haram, if say or answer a Salam to the Kafir.
4. Makruh, if say salam to people who were praying, or in a bathroom, or sleeping.
5. Mubah/Permissible, if the old woman who does not cause fitnah (her beauty) say salam to the man.
The say or answer a Salam between men and beautiful women who can cause fitnah then it is not allowed.
(summary of the book of Al Adzkar An Nawawi, Chapter Greetings and Isti'dzan)


 
ANSWER "SEND SALAM"

One day Spassiball, my friend from Riau tekt send messages on yahoo messenger :
"Akhi ... Zein, Naff says salam to you".

Speech send Salam as above we often hear in everyday life. Maybe we are getting mails salam or sometimes we are considered to be salam, either from other people, friends or family, either directly or through the mail or sms.

Inspired by this, I try to review how it should be a way to answer "submission of salam" from someone.
In reference to these problems is the book Al Adzkar An Nawawi which explains the argument about the send / answer salam.

وروينا في سنن أبي داود عن غالب القطان عن رجل قال: حدثني أبي عن جدي، قال: بَعَثَنِي أَبِي إِلَى رَسُوْلِ الله - صلى الله عليه وسلم - فقال: اِئْتِهِ فَأَقْرِئْهُ السَّلامَ، قَالَ:  فَأَتَيْتُهُ فَقُلْتُ : إنَّ أَبِي يُقْرِئُكَ السَّلاَمَ، فَقَالَ : عَلَيْكَ وَعَلَى أَبِيْكَ السَّلاَمُ.
Narrated in Sunan Abu Daud of Gholib Al Qotthon from someone who said, my father has told me of my grandfather, he said: "My father sent me to The Prophet and said: Meet Muhammad, and to convey his Salam. So I went to Muhammad and said," Verily, my father expressed Salam to you ", then The Prophet replied:" Alaika wa 'ala abiika Assalam (may salvation upon you and your father) "


"Wa'alaikum Salam"
It is our responsibility if there is someone who greeted us.
As we understand, the legal answer Salam is mandatory. And the meaning of salam is the prayer of salvation

So also with Salam shipment, then we also must respond instantly / immediately after we hear or get it.
But if we just say "wa'alaikum salam" course, we only pray for people who just say salam. While that sends Salam do not get our prayers, this according to Arabic grammar.

"wa'alaikum Salam" means "hope of salvation is also devoted to you"

So to "send salam", there are additional lafadz different according to gender of the person who says and sending Salam, male (mudzakkar) or female (mu'annats).
for example;
1. Ahmad (mudzakkar) said: "Hei Ali, Aunt Amina (mu'annats) sends her salam to you"
2. Fatimah (mu'annats) said: "Mother, grandfather (mudzakkar) sends his salam to you"

the replay "send salam" above :
1. Ali said         ; 'alaika wa 'alaihas salam  = salvation may also upon you (Ahmad) and her (Aunt Amina)
2. Mother said  ; 'alaiki wa 'alaihis salam = salvation may also upon you (Fatimah) and him (Grandfather)

Differentiator of the above core lies at the end of denotative words gender.
"ka" = you (male)            "hi" = he  (male)
"ki"  = you (female)        "ha" = she  (female) 
 
From the two examples above there are different types of actors, both those who speak and sending Salam. For that to replay "send salam" even this be adapted to different rules of Arabic grammar.

Some forms lafadz how to answer "send Salam" are as follows:

1. said salam male and sending salam male
example: Ahmad said, "Zein ..., Hasan says salam to you"
The answer = 'alaika wa' alaihis salam

2. said salam male and sending salam female
example: Ahmad said, "Zein ...,
Aunt Aminah says salam to you"
The answer = 'alaika wa' alaihas salam

3. said salam female and sending salam female
example: Zahra said, "Zein ..., Aunt Aminah says salam to you"
The answer = 'alaiki wa' alaihas salam"

4. said salam female and sending salam male
example: Zahra said, "Zein ..., Hasan says salam to you"
The answer = 'alaiki wa' alaihas salam

5. said salam male and sending salam two or more people
example: Ahmad said, "Zein ..., community in majlis says salam to you"
The answer = 'alaika wa' alahimus salam

6. said salam female and sending salam two or more people
example: Zahra said, "Zein ..., community in majlis says salam to you"
The answer = 'alaiki wa' alahimus salam

These are some answers to "send Salam" according to Arabic grammar, hopefully useful to us for the perfection of the symbols of Islam, especially in spreading the Salam.

All truth comes from Allah and the error comes from my self because of the lack of knowledge.

والله الموفق وأعلم بالصواب
Allah Ta'ala who gave taufiq and know more about the truth

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